My age is 31 years, height is 5 feet, weight is 40 kgs and I'm a male.
A major chunk of us must be imagining after reading this, "ye kitna dubla hai; phoonk maar do udd jayega; khaana nai khaata kya?; roz gym jaa; roz 10 ande khaa; roz 12 kele kha; arre tu chicken khaa roz..." and the list never ends.
Body shaming has become a part and parcel of our lives. Doesn't matter if it's fat shaming or skinny shaming, or you're a man or lady - body shaming is faced by everyone.
Today's tendency is that girls despise thin guys when talking on a commitment perspective. You may think why and the potential answer could be they are ashamed to walk around with someone skinny.
Who cares about the general public, when your own family, friends and aquaintances body shame you the most?
What does this lead to? You start avoiding people. You fail to realize who's genuinely trying to help. Right recommendations also seem wrong. You lose confidence over yourself.
Why am I saying this? Why am I body shaming myself now? This is for you to know this has made my better half despise me, thereby ending up with unimaginable distances between us.
The best solution could be to stop talking about someone else's body in first place. Either wholeheartedly accept them the way they are, or just stay away. Don't try to change people for such reasons.
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